some people would say, "ang dami naman iba d'yan bakit yung may sabit pa ang ginusto mo?"
perhaps society has always looked down on single parents.. i believe they still deserve a second chance in a relationship.. it is really a fact that they already have offsprings but there isn't any law in this world that prohibits them to be in a new relationship.. except of course if they are still married..
di na ito malaking usapin sa society sa ngaun un lang ang sa opinyon ko ha ganyan lang talaga ang pag ibig kahit ano ka pa or kahit sino ka pa basta pag ang puso na ang nangibabaw eh hahamakin talaga ang lahat ehehehehehe
in my own opinion...there's no problem with if i am going to have a relationship with single parent as long as i love her... and i love also whoever she loves...
@decapitator
Based on experience?..
IMO that's no big deal..it's just that some of us in this country just wouldn't accept that kind of an idea..it is a lot acceptable than being a mistress or fallin in love to someone who already has a family..
as long as walang karelasyon - i mean single parent in true form... walang boyfriend/girlfriend, walang inaayos na annulment/divorce at lalong walang kinakasamang iba..
lahat naman ng tao ay may karapatan magmahal pero minsan kasi nakatali tayo sa batas kaya dapat munang plantsahin ang gusot na to...
being serious with this kind of relationship/setup... for sure mahal niya tlga yung tao the fact na may anak or mga anak ito... ndi pa man din kayo magasawa may resposibilidad na agad sa mga bata...
ang malunkot lng saken eh sya pa un me makapal na mukha na iniwan ako lagi nalng..til now wala na talga.saket lng tinagap ko sya pati fam ko kng anu sya.
nagkaconfident na kc na me magkakagusto pa pala sa kanya. malas ko ako pa na punta sa kanya ang swerte nmn nya!.kapal ng mukha tapos cnabi nya un saken ha? in my face..
na dahl daw saken nakita nya ne me second chnace pa pala..pinamulat ko sya, pinakita ko d dapat mag low self estem and wat wat hapen? ako pa me mali ako pa ginaganito.lang hiya! nu ba gnawa ko.. haha
anu to gamitan pala? para makamove on sa past nya?
guez na truma na ako..
ayaw ko na rin ganyan..
actuali super mahirap eh..
kinaya ko lng pero san na punta wala..
saket pre!...
no big deal as long as they love each other. but the truth remains that we are living in a world full of criticisms. so if two people (with one being a single parent) really have the courage to fight for their relationship against all odds and the eyes of the society, then go for it. their happiness is ultimately what's important in the end.
i agree our society really sometimes descriminate those single parents but IMO, it's okay as long as the guy/girl desrves you and you desrve hm as well, i'm sure if you really love each other no matter what good and even bad things he has you'll accept it still...
honestly walang mali, basta make it sure na walang masasagasaan o masisirang pamilya magiging mali lang kung may pamilya xa at pilit kang eentra minsan kasi yung ibang tao mali daw dahil may anak na wala mali dun kasi lahat tayo kailangan ng pagmamahal ang problema pag pinatos mo pumayag xa yun pala may asawa pa xa at buo pa ang pamilya nya yun ang mali pero kung hiwalay na xa at libre na bakit hindi di ba?? basta isipin mo lang walang mali kung walang masasaktan pero asahan mo din na may masasabi ang ibang tao sa ginawa m alam mo naman na siguro kung ano yung mga pwedeng mong marinig ryt?? lakasan mo lang loob mo sabay lunok ng pride okay...
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honestly walang mali, basta make it sure na walang masasagasaan o masisirang pamilya magiging mali lang kung may pamilya xa at pilit kang eentra minsan kasi yung ibang tao mali daw dahil may anak na wala mali dun kasi lahat tayo kailangan ng pagmamahal ang problema pag pinatos mo pumayag xa yun pala may asawa pa xa at buo pa ang pamilya nya yun ang mali pero kung hiwalay na xa at libre na bakit hindi di ba?? basta isipin mo lang walang mali kung walang masasaktan pero asahan mo din na may masasabi ang ibang tao sa ginawa m alam mo naman na siguro kung ano yung mga pwedeng mong marinig ryt?? lakasan mo lang loob mo sabay lunok ng pride okay...
----- if it's not worthy dont push it, if you really want it work hard for it :)
xempre ang taong makkitid ang utak negative ang sasabihin nila sau...pero don sa mga taong magagaling at open minded xempre hindi...like me...hehehehe
ako naman wala naman sigurong masama if magkaroon sila ng relationship xempre naman they nid also to be happy...on the part naman ng single parent dapat walang masasaktan if magkakaron man sia ng relationship..ang magiging problem nalang siguro eh ung mga anak nia...but as long as kaya nia den GO....