curious lang ako ..... bakit everytime na someone asked me about my status and i answered that im a single mother or a single parent ...... lagi nilang hinahanap ang "asawa ko" ?!? OK lang ba sila? Mali ba ang pagkakasabi ko or mahina lang ang comprehension nila?
maloualcala said:
curious lang ako ..... bakit everytime na someone asked me about my status and i answered that im a single mother or a single parent ...... lagi nilang hinahanap ang "asawa ko" ?!? OK lang ba sila? Mali ba ang pagkakasabi ko or mahina lang ang comprehension nila?
aaww.. baka curious lang din sila.. yun ata talaga una pumapasok sa mind ng tao, maybe they were thinking "pano ka naging single parent? asan ang asawa mo?.." parang ganun siguro
eto yung mga tao na mas proud ako. because these people can stand with their own and fight lalo na sa kapakanan ng kanilang anak o mga anak.
hindi biro ang magpalaki ng mga anak that supposedly ay dalawa kayo?..
these kind of people are strong, emotionally, physically and spiritually.
i've seen my friends who are in these scenario. how they struggle, how they work so hard and take good care of the only family they have..
and it's not a minus factor if one is a single parent, is a plus factor for me..because i know how reponsible they are..
----- ..and I don't want the world to see me..cause I don't think that they'd understand..
when everything's made to be broken..
I just want you to know who I am..
yajra said:
being serious with this kind of relationship/setup... for sure mahal niya tlga yung tao the fact na may anak or mga anak ito... ndi pa man din kayo magasawa may resposibilidad na agad sa mga bata...
welcome back fafa arjhay tagal natin nawala ah?
on the topic: i dont see any problems regarding being a single parent and falling in love with such one. everybody deserves a a second chance to be loved and to love.
baka naman their just trying to figure out things that happened why you became single... or they're just trying to figure out if you are really single (legally)...
maloualcala said:
curious lang ako ..... bakit everytime na someone asked me about my status and i answered that im a single mother or a single parent ...... lagi nilang hinahanap ang "asawa ko" ?!? OK lang ba sila? Mali ba ang pagkakasabi ko or mahina lang ang comprehension nila?
baka ang hinahanap nila eh kung sang lupalop na ang tatay ng anak mo ...
on the topic, wala namang problemang mahalin ang single parent, sabi nga nung isang TDPer na nag-comment, kung yun ngang may asawa na nagmamahal pa ng iba eh di lalo ng pwedeng mahalin ang single parent lalo na kung libre kayo pareho. Besides di rin naman cguro masamang magmahal ng single parent. hhhhmmmm .. magulo ba??
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Many thanks to Miss casSidiE for this SiGgY...
people do make it a big deal because that's what they believe. but if you don't make it one, it won't be one and it won't matter. don't care about what others will say. it's solely up to you who you love, no matter if they aren't or are a single parent...
wel single parents r most suited for a relationship..imagine they've gone tru a lot...committing another mistake, wouldnn b in their league.... i shud know.. i used 2b 1...and am damn proud of it....
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Jul 07, 2008 11:15 am Edited : Jul 07, 2008 11:18 am
i once had a relationship with a single mother. hindi ko naman naisip na hadlang yung anak niya. actually nung kame pa nun eh ang tawag sa kin ng anak niya ay 'daddy' which really made my day everytime the kid calls me that.
mejo nagulat lang sa haus namin nung sinabi ko nangyari pero ang tanong kagad ni erpat ay kung sinabi ba nung babae na may anak siya nung nanliligaw pa ko. which the girl did and really made no difference when she told me so. We had a 1 year ++ relationship lang pero hindi yung bata ang reason. it was between us two. Buti nalang din kasi 32 kilometers pa yung bahay nung babae (Cavite City) galing samin (Paranaque) at nasa 4liters / 100 pesos pa nun. kung hanggang ngayon kami pa din tiyak tuyo ang bulsa ko.
maloualcala said:
curious lang ako ..... bakit everytime na someone asked me about my status and i answered that im a single mother or a single parent ...... lagi nilang hinahanap ang "asawa ko" ?!? OK lang ba sila? Mali ba ang pagkakasabi ko or mahina lang ang comprehension nila?
madami reasons, madami opinions but most of the answer to that question, i guess, wala lang maitanong na may sense..curious din sila..
nakasanayan na itanong sa isang single parent.
----- ..and I don't want the world to see me..cause I don't think that they'd understand..
when everything's made to be broken..
I just want you to know who I am..
why not.. kung magmamahal ka naman you'll love the person for who she is.. the whole package. love is blind that it sees no difference if you're married, single parent, or whatever. go lang ng go! pag mahal mo mahal mo..
ala naman problem dito as long mahal nyo ang isa't isa, respect each other, accepts the past and willing to build a new life together kasama yung anak then go...single parents deserves to be loved, accepted and respected