jubes said:
eto yung mga tao na mas proud ako. because these people can stand with their own and fight lalo na sa kapakanan ng kanilang anak o mga anak.
hindi biro ang magpalaki ng mga anak that supposedly ay dalawa kayo?..
these kind of people are strong, emotionally, physically and spiritually.
i've seen my friends who are in these scenario. how they struggle, how they work so hard and take good care of the only family they have..
and it's not a minus factor if one is a single parent, is a plus factor for me..because i know how reponsible they are..
nakakataba ng puso sameng mga single parent pag nakakabasa ng mga ganito... thanks!!!!
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Jul 11, 2008 11:47 am Edited : Jul 11, 2008 11:51 am
hindi issue to...lalo na saken...swerte nga ng ganun eh...instant daddy/mommy ka di ba... pero if you'll gonna engage yourself sa isang ganitong relationship, make sure na mamahalin mo din talaga yung anak ng partner mo.. kung hindi, better stay off..
and, hats off ako sa mga ganito..kasi, if nagkamali lang sila kaya siya nagkaanak, and hindi nila pinalaglag yung bata, it means that they're responsible.. napaka hirap maging single parent.. pero pinili nilang ituloy na buhayin yung bata.. which tama.. this proves how responsible people they are,.. and how LOVING they are sa mga magiging anak pa nila.. and dahil dun, mas gugustuhin ko pang sila yung maging mommy ng mga magiging baby ko if magiging kami talaga nung girl...
----- there R about 6,779,600,524 people in this world.but sometimes.we just need one
Nowadays it's not a big deal...what matters is if you are willing to accept the fact that he/she is a single parent and if you are willing to be part of the responsibility that goes with it?...If it's a yes, then no problem...just make sure to love him/her and his/her kid too...
alam mo, it shouldn't be a big deal... pero, for me, i tried it and it was super mahirap. kasi, wherever we went, unless may babysitter sya, eh, kasami di ang bata. tsaka when we split, i kinda felt bad, kasi na mi-miss ko yung bata. super cute kasi! tsaka palagi naka yakap sa akin, as if i were the mom. so hindi lang yung mother/father dapat pagisipan sa relasyon - kasama narin yung bata, kasi pagnasanay na sa yo, mahirap din sa kanya pag nawala ka.
hindi naman big deal kung magmamahal ka ng sigle parent eh bsta be ready lang kasi hindi ka lang dun sa partner mo committed kundi pati dun sa anak nya.
and isa pa. wala namang mali sa pagiging single parent, nagkamali man sila ang importante napanindigan nila at napapalaki nila ng maayos at tama ung anak/mga anak nila.
sa palagay ko dipende.. dahil mas maganda maging single parent sa anak mo kung lage lang kayo nag aaway ng asawa mo....dahil lalo lang maaapektuhan ung bata... mas mabuti pa maging friends nalang kyo ng asawa mo.... at pareho na masaya...
im ok with it as long as you're ready to face all odds, iba pa kasi culture nating mga pinoy eh.. if you're in the states madali pero dito sa pinas hayy nakuh un lng masasabi ko
so far hindi pa naman ako na-iinvolve sa ganitong situation kaya mahirap magcomment..pero cguro depende sa usapan yan, as long as walang matatapakan or masasagasahan eh ayus lang, nadadaan naman lahat sa mabuting usapan..