Well I was just thinking if its really a bad thing if you are being so intimate with your spouse. Meaning you want to, everyday you want to make love with him/her.
Are you really somehow violating his/her rights as a person? How about addressing your needs? You sometimes fear that you instead look for someone else to address it.
disclaimer:
I am not encouraging anyone to do this out of wedlock. People who should answer on this thread must be mature enough. I do not intend also to feel unsettled about the topic.
Moderator if you think this is something that should be blocked please do so. I apologize upfront.
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Ok lang naman po siguro yun eh. Consumation of passion lang siguro, if it is a crime to make love to your spouse daily then it should be a crime of passion
Pero po it shouldn't be done out of just pleasing the other party or pleasing yourself. It takes two to tango po di ba? Kya po dapat pareho po kayo ng spouse na gusto mag consumate.
Hindi naman po violation of rights yan. Kasi naman po you are married, you just have to open it up with your spouse about this issue. Addressing your needs? Marami din naman alternatives and some couples po they even approve of pornography and masturbation to address those needs.
Kung natatakot po kayo na sa iba nyo kukunin, mag retrospect na po kayo kasi that means may lamat yung want/need nyo sa spouse nyo.
you are violating her rights if you force her to make with you..
if it is ok to make to her also there is no violation of that...
what is important is you are enjoying...
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Nov 23, 2008 08:22 pm Edited : Nov 23, 2008 08:31 pm
sobrang inaraw araw naman.. hehehe.. peace..
pwede pong makisagot kahit na di pa married?
wala pong masama sa daily intimacy KUNG gusto din ng partner nyo.. nasa paguusap nyo naman pong dalawa yan eh.. ang mahalaga.. may respeto kayo sa pangangailangan ng isat isa.. yun po bang pakiramdam ng ganyan, i mean yung gusto na araw araw.. di m0 po ba pwedeng ibaling sa ibang bagay? baka naman po may ibang paraan pa para di ka makaramdam ng ganyan.. kasi kung talagang iisipin mo ang partner mo.. iisipin mo rin syempre yung magiging epekto nun sa kanya.. like.. married na kayo di ba? naisip mo po bang baka malaspag agad nyan si misis? kasi maliban sa pagaasikaso sayo.. sa bahay.. sa bata.. at sa iba pang isipin sa pamilya nyo.. tapos araw araw pa.. di kaya magmukhang 40-50 na si misis? well its okey to look 40,,.. as long as you look 30.. ang sabi ng commercial.. hehehe.. ang labo ko ba?
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Nov 24, 2008 08:38 am Edited : Nov 24, 2008 08:39 am
Pero sabi naman nila ate click, nakakabata daw yan..
Anyway, sabi ng nila "too much is evil." Pero kung kayong dalawa naman ay gusto ito, it should not be a problem. Better that you always stoke the fire of passion as often as physically possible. Kung pagod sya o kaya may sakit na dinaramdam, ay pare walang pilitan.
But i do believe na kailangan talaga inurture ang passion lalo na sa mag-asawa. Yan kasi ang kadalasan nakakaligtaan lalo na dahil sa hirap ng buhay. Pag hindi pa kasal andyan ang lahat ng lambingan, pero pagkasal na..bakit biglang nawawala? Hindi naman pwede sabihin nalang na dahil busy sa pagpapalaki ng anak, sa trabaho, para sa kinabukasan. Sex in marriage should always be an intimate sharing of love, thoughts, passion and of our self to the one we love. It should always be that way..
What if, suddenly, you're wife thought of herself as a sex slave? There are other ways to show your love for her. Something she'll appreciate before proceeding to love making.
kung aaraw arawin mo eh posibleng malaspag ang asawa mo dba? saka baka mamya magsawa na siya sayo tapos ang dating na sakanya eh parang daily routine na niya yun..wala ng passion..ndi na love making ang ibig sabihin sakanya pag ganun...
sa akin ok lng yun...kasi eventually mag-slow down din yan as time goes....habang very active pa ang partner, bigay lng ang hilig...pero dapat din maintindihan ng guy kung may mga time na walang gana ang girl and vice versa kasi syempre pag pagod, hindi rin enjoy...
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